Recently I had realized that not all my friends on Facebook
are my “real” friends. You see I just
got married recently. Obviously I have
invited people I thought were my friends(?)
Now I was surprised when a lot of them didn’t RSVP at all (& showed
signs they are not coming---or the lack of signs showed me that). Reading articles on the net & feedback
from the wedding coordinator showed that NOT EVERYONE comes on a wedding…a lot
of people DO NOT SHOW UP. Now what
confused me then was all these people liking my wedding prep photos on FB. Now this is after I have sent them my einvite
(w/ NO RESPONSE). So naturally I would
message them about it if they are coming or not --- NO RESPONSE. But time and again they keep on liking my
wedding prep photos, etc.. It is
weird. Are those all for show??? I don’t know.
It is confusing to me as for me if I get to catch up & chat w/ a
friend even just on FB I consider those conversations & moments “real.” We are not just friends ONLINE or on FB. We are FRIENDS, just as plain as that. Now I know that isn’t true for everyone (or
most people). How can they ignore you
but keep on liking your photos…commenting, etc.. For what?
Are we actors? Celebrities? Are
they only looking for fame?? I really do
not understand. I have heard an awkward
story before about 2 people being FB friends and all but totally ignoring each
other in real life…what is that? I don’t
get it but now I know…
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