So Valentine’s Day is coming. I remember when I was still single I tend to “dread”
this day (well maybe not as much as the Christmas holidays). Now that I am recently married I really don’t
care that this day is coming. And I
really envy all the single people out there.
I don’t know why people keep on posting “happy photos” on facebook about
being married (and having kids as well).
Now that I am married I CANNOT SEE what is HAPPY about being
married. It’s all suffering, sacrifices,
& misery. I wish I had been single
forever. I married late but still, my
time as a single woman was not enough.
Now I never wanna have kids. Why
would I when I hear that’s EVEN HARDER THAN MARRIAGE ITSELF.
Just today I can’t see any other post on Facebook than all
about my “friends’” kids, like they are really happy & too fond of
them. I cannot imagine myself having
that feeling & I wish that day NEVER COMES.
Now that I am experiencing the hardships of marriage I NEVER want to
experience even MORE HARDSHIPS from having kids.
I miss my single life.
I miss not being responsible for anything, the household, etc.. Only caring for myself. Not having a “sensitive” husband that I
always have to care for while he never cares for me at all. Is it like this as well if you’re a man?
I miss my single life.
I can’t imagine why I felt so lonely and desperate then, I had
everything. I had a maid (I mean my
parents hired her). I live at my parents’
house, I’m not responsible on fixing anything that is broken, I just have to “report”
it. I can spend my weekends how I
want. I can rest. I am not stressed. I can ACTUALLY REST at home. I don’t use the office as my “resting place”
or “peaceful place.” I had an actual
home L
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